The challenges faced by elderly people are not limited to one country or one society. Across the world, older people experience different difficulties, including loneliness, health problems, financial insecurity and a lack of proper care and attention. As societies change and family structures become smaller, the responsibility of protecting and supporting senior citizens has become increasingly important.
When I think about elderly people, my thoughts naturally go to my parents, Chandrakala Rao and Mohan Rao. Their love, sacrifices and guidance have shaped my understanding of family life. Our parents and ancestors worked hard, faced difficulties and made many sacrifices to provide a better future for the next generation. The opportunities and achievements we enjoy today are closely connected with the efforts of those who came before us. We should never forget this contribution.
Our elders are our strength. They have given us knowledge, experience, values and traditions that have been passed from one generation to another. We should not make decisions or move forward in life by forgetting our ancestors and their contributions. Remembering our previous generations is not merely an emotional feeling; it is an important part of recognising our roots and responsibilities.
One important truth that everyone should remember is that ageing is a natural stage of life. Every person, regardless of wealth, position or profession, will eventually experience old age if they live long enough. The young people of today will become the senior citizens of tomorrow. Therefore, we should think about how we would wish to be treated when we grow older. This understanding should encourage us to show greater patience, kindness and respect towards elderly people.
Family structures and lifestyles have changed considerably. Many children move to distant places for education, employment and other opportunities. As a result, some elderly parents remain alone in their homes. They may face health-related difficulties and financial concerns, but their need for affection, companionship and emotional support is equally important. We should not allow our parents and grandparents to feel that they have become a burden.
Spirituality also plays an important role in the lives of many older people. During old age, some become more actively involved in prayer, religious activities, reading spiritual literature, visiting places of worship and participating in community and cultural activities. Such involvement can provide peace of mind, a sense of purpose and opportunities for social interaction. These are positive activities that deserve encouragement and respect. Spiritual life can also help people reflect on their experiences and maintain meaningful connections with their communities.
In this context, the Kerala Government’s establishment of a separate Department of Senior Citizens is a welcome step. It recognises that the concerns of older people require focused attention. I appreciate this initiative and hope that the department will help ensure that elderly people receive the care, protection and support they deserve. Special attention should be given to those who live alone and those who have limited family or financial support.
I believe that the responsibility of caring for senior citizens belongs to all of us. Families, neighbours, local communities and government institutions must work together. Children should remember their responsibilities towards their parents, even when they live far away. A telephone call, a personal visit, a few minutes of conversation or timely assistance can make a meaningful difference to an elderly person’s life.
Our grandparents and earlier generations have contributed greatly to building our families and society. Their hard work has created the foundation on which we stand today. We must recognise their achievements, respect their experiences and understand their difficulties. Old age should never deprive anyone of dignity, affection or a meaningful place in society.
India and the rest of the world must prepare for the challenges of an ageing population. However, preparation should not be limited to government policies and welfare programmes. A change in our attitudes is equally necessary. We must develop a society in which older people are valued, included and supported.
I strongly believe that the real progress of a society can also be understood through the way it treats its elderly population. We should remember our parents, grandparents and ancestors, appreciate what they have given us and stand beside them when they need us. One day, we too may depend on the understanding and kindness of the younger generation.
Caring for our elders is not simply a duty. It is an expression of gratitude towards the generations that made our present possible. We must never forget our roots while building our future.
V. Rajesh Mohan Rao
V. Rajesh Mohan Rao is a Higher Secondary School Teacher and Writer based in Dharmadam, Thalassery, Kerala, India. He writes on science, education and inspiring personalities, sharing his perspectives as an educator and admirer of scientific achievements.
